The definition for self esteem is to have confidence in one's own worth or ability, self respect. Many people believe that in order to get anything done in their lives they have to have high self esteem. However that is not the case. How many people do you know work really well for other people? How many people you know that seems to get everything done (meetings, events, projects) for other people? In the same right we know that same person can not seem to get anything done for themselves, right? People can get things done for other people when they have low self esteem however they have a hard time getting things done for themselves. Why? The reason is that we believe just because we are not taking the risk we are not the reason for other success. We believe that our skills are not worth much. We need start to appreciate our skills. How do we start to appreciate our skills.
1. If you work in a position where it take a skill set. Try look up what your skills are worth or what your position is worth. If you feel as a person you can ask for much realize you skills are in demand for a price.
2. Think of yourself as a different person you need to help. We are really good at giving help to other people just not ourselves. That's why it can work in your benefit to treat yourself like you are helping another person.
3. Get used to having a standard. Get use to asking for your need and want. Get used to having negative feelings when you start putting yourself first. Get use to walking away from people who are toxic. The most important thing. Get used to getting what you want and being the person you want to be.
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